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Finding the Right Time

April 11, 2012 | Comments: 0 | Views: 129

How often have you thought of finding the right time. Each and every single day we postpone crucial issues in our lives because we always feel that it is never the right time.

So many relationships fell apart, because people failed to take a moment, stand back and realise that now is the only time you will ever have. Now is the time that you need, either to make things right or move forward in your relationship.

People always say timing is of great importance and they are right. There is no right time for healing after a hard break up. There is no right time for getting over the loss of a loved one. But truth is time heals all wounds. Time makes it that much better for you tomorrow. You are better able to handle disappointments and hurts because of the passage of time.

But to say you will find the right time to tell the truth. No you will never find the right time to lay it all bare. You think now is the right moment but one look at him/her and you cannot do it any more. You cannot bear to be the one to wipe off that smile on her/his face. But is it not too late to start thinking of that. You cannot put things off for a later date simply because it makes it that much easier for you.

If you are waiting for the right time then you ought to realise that the longer you wait, the higher the chances they are going to find out anyway. And it is then that you are going to wish that you had not tried to wait for the right time. After all there is never a right time to come clean. It just has to be done for the sake of some sanity especially on your part.

Are you waiting for that time when you can get to say,"I am sorry". Trying to find the right words to say it so that s/he can understand that you truly are sincere. Well sometimes people do not need to hear the right phrases. Because no matter how much you sugar coat those words, they do not erase the hurt you cause them.

Say it, do not wait until it is too late. Too late to change a bad patch in a relationship into something amazing and beautiful. The longer you wait, the harder it becomes to make things right.

So if you are thinking of saying sorry in 3 days time, that is probably too late. No two people should go to bed angry at each other. Each dawn symbolises a new beginning. A new chance to start over and make things right.

Remember the longer you wait, the more you waste time that you could have spent building memories.

What about that girl that you have seen around for a while. She seems nice and well you actually like her. What are you waiting for? Don't say it, the right time! Be careful that whilst waiting you might never get a chance of telling her how you feel and never get the chance of hearing that she feels the same way too.

Now is the time that you have been looking for. Now is the time to appreciate all those around you. Life is too short, whilst waiting for tomorrow a lot can happen overnight... and then you will never get the chance to tell them you love them because they will be gone forever.

Take a moment now to appreciate all that you have in your life because whilst trying to find the right time, you might miss it all.

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