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Getting Back Together With An Ex Usually Spells Trouble

February 23, 2012 | Comments: 0 | Views: 147

Making the decision to get back with your ex is something that should never be considered lightly. There is a reason behind every relationship's failure, and quite often people overlook these reasons in the rush to try to recapture the romance that felt so good. It is easy to overlook the bad and only remember the good. In order to avoid this, go through this checklist of the most frequent ways that people get back together for the wrong reasons.

Loneliness

When we are in a relationship, it is great to know that there is always someone there to talk to. We know that someone will be there with at the end of the day, and that we can share our innermost thoughts and feeling with that person. That is a powerful reason that often keeps relationships together for longer than is healthy.

Losing that feeling of intimacy is often devastating to both parties in the relationship. It can make us feel utterly alone, and sometimes leaves us desperate to recapture that closeness. It is much easier to simply go back to a troubled relationship for intimacy than to work to build it with a new partner. That is why many times couples have this rubber band effect of breaking and making up over and over. Do not fall victim to loneliness. Although it hurts now, it is better to wait and find intimacy in a new, healthy relationship. Do not get back with your ex just because you are lonely.

Payback

Sometimes people try to get back with their exes just to try to exact a measure of revenge, For example, maybe a woman's ex cheated on her. She broke up with him, and now takes him back just to repay the favor by cheating on him. Do not fall victim to this petty way of thinking. It will not make you feel better to get back with your ex to payback past transgressions. Be the bigger person, and move forward to a new, healthy relationship. There are so many wonderful opportunities waiting out there.

Desire

When we have something and lose it, sometimes we want it back just because we don't have it anymore. Many people simply want what they can't have. This is an awful reason to get back with your ex. Do not get back together simply because you want to get back what once was yours. Remember that there were good reasons for the breakup, and reflect on those before doing something foolish.

Getting Back Together

Sometimes, but rarely, it does make sense to get back with your ex. Maybe the timing was off before. Maybe one of you had to work through a personal issue. Maybe one of you had to focus on your career before, and didn't have time for a serious relationship. If there are circumstances that have changed, then sometimes it does make sense to try again. Just make sure that this is a logical decision, not an emotional one.

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