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You Keep Meeting Great Guys But They Keep Doing a Houdini Act

May 08, 2012 | Comments: 0 | Views: 179

Are you meeting great guys but don't seem to get past the second date? Why can't you connect with a guy and have a great relationship?

Your friends tell you there is nothing wrong with you. Yet still you can't get a man to stick around long enough to have a real connection.

The perfect man comes along and you don't want to drive him away. He is everything you are looking for in a husband and you wonder if this guy will leave also.

The big problem why he won't stay

So what is the problem, why are men leaving before they even get to know you? Maybe it is because they have learned too much about you by your conversations.

If a man learns your whole life history in great detail by the end of an evening, there is very little else to hold his curiosity about you. You may love to talk and pride yourself of never being at a loss for words. Your friends might even think that is a great quality about you. They can have you around and there is no lull in the conversation, because you have it covered.

Telling all especially if you have had an exciting past can leave a man with thinking about his own history which pales in comparison to yours. It might make him feel that he might not meet up to your expectations and never be able to give you a life that would make you happy. Or even if you had a dysfunctional past he might look at it as too much drama and see you as an emotional roller coaster to deal with.

This is definitely not the time to bring out all the 'skeletons in the closet'. You can scare away a man in a flash if you tell too much too soon.

Don't fall for this trap

Of course another problem that women fall victim to, which is telling their plans for the future. It is trap that you need to avoid and by giving it some thought before you take off on your next first date.

The conversation is a casual one and usually starts out like this. "Where do you see yourself in one year?" Answer it as a career question, but not a lot of detail. If you are taking college classes and your final results for that would land you a career in a different field, then that is what you say. Just make it a short answer. The next question will probably be, "where do you see yourself in five years?" Okay so now he is testing the waters here. How you answer is important, because he is really going to listen to what you say. Make your answer short, it could be like this. "Well (pause) I hope that I would be married by then." If you want children, you could also say maybe with one child or a child on the way. Now that you have answered quickly say, "Okay, what about you, where do you see yourself in one year?" When he answers that, ask him the same question he asked you, "where do you see yourself in five years?" How he answers the same questions he asked you will tell you if he wants to get married in the near future.

As long as the conversation remains casual you can gain a great deal of information. What you learn can help to see if this man might be someone you would eventually like to marry.

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