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Permanently Stop Neediness From Destroying Your Relationships

February 22, 2012 | Comments: 0 | Views: 158

Do you know that neediness in the form of clinginess, jealousy, feelings of insecurity, fears of being alone, fears of abandonment and rejection, the need to do surveillance, the tendency to manipulate and control, and even to blackmail, to name a few are highly destructive not only to your relationship but also to your sense of personal integrity? Do you know that means engaging them is equivalent to traumatizing and compromising your self? Do you know that will only make you even more needy and self destructive? Finally, do you know that there is now a powerful and effective way to pull yourself out of this vicious life negating cycle? Want to learn more?

All neediness stems from negative memories of past relationships in which one has perhaps experienced abuse, rejection, abandonment, humiliation, shame, betrayal, etc.

Such memories get stored deep within the subconscious mind and behave as what I have termed Life Force Energy Parasites i.e. they deplete and drain one's life force from the mind/body.

Life Force Energy (LFE) is not only the essence of your Authentic Self it is also the source of all one's positive internal resources i.e. their self confidence, self worth, self esteem, inner strength, resilience, inner wisdom, emotional independence and self sufficiency, inner peace, sense of purpose, wholeness, sense of wellbeing, health and much more.

When LFE is depleted from within the individual is left feeling empty, insecure, alone, vulnerable, afraid, weak, and needy to name a few. This is because they are left deficient in what and who they are. This deficiency, which manifests as neediness and emptiness, is highly painful.

A needy individual attempts to fulfill their needs for validation, love, security, care, understanding, sympathy, etc. by trying to get these from others i.e. from out side of themselves. This is because they do not realize that all of these are sourced from their own internal Life Force Energy that they are deficient in.

A decade ago it was discovered that not only can negative memories be completely deleted but as they are the LFE they drained from an individual's mind/body/energy field spontaneously returns and reintegrates itself with that mind/body/energy field. This is equivalent to the essence (some refer to this as "spirit' or "soul") of the individual coming back into the mind/body or the person literally coming back to life.

With this comes an experience of wholeness, completeness, emotional self sufficiency, security and independence to name just a few. This progressively and permanently extinguishes any need that may have hijacked them in the past and restores them to their Authentic Self expressed and attractive self. Clearly this bodes well for future and present relationship success.

So if you are one of those individuals who has been hijacked by self destructive neediness that is also destroying your relationships and you would like to free yourself from the negative slide into loneliness and disappointment kindly visit the web site below where you can request a free introductory telephone/Skype coaching consultation that will introduce you to a powerful process that will literally begin to give you back your life.

Nick Arrizza, a former Psychiatrist and Medical Doctor is now an International Expert Life, Relationship & Spiritual Tele-Coach, Author the developer of the powerful Mind Resonance Process® (MRP).

A Free 1 Hour Introductory MRP Telephone/Skype Consultation and a Free E-copy of my new book are available upon request. (You will be asked to cover your own long distance telephone charges)

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