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Mr. Right: How To Avoid the Wrong Men To Meet Your Soul Mate

May 15, 2012 | Comments: 0 | Views: 196

Ever wonder how you can meet your Mr. Right, your soul mate, while avoiding the heartache of dating the wrong men.

Mr. Right has been eluding single women for centuries, It's not because he's hiding. Usually women miss meeting their soul mate because they get distracted by the wrong men.

That sounds simple enough. However your search for a soul mate can actually be extremely difficult because Mr. Right may not have the appearance of the man of your dreams. He may not have the charming, smooth personality you're usually attracted to.

In fact your soul mate may be an average guy. The same as the guy in your office, you neighbor or the guy you bump into every morning at Starbucks. That's what throws many single women off, after all they have some idea in their heads of what they want in a soul mate.

Unfortunately what many single women think they want in a man, is often some version of a man who's wrong for them.

If what you want in a soul mate is based solely on how he looks or some other superficial characteristic, you may be heading for trouble. If your only measuring stick is a comparison to your exes, then you need to start rethinking your dealbreaker list.

This means you need to start thinking about what you really want in a soul mate and a relationship. That's why in order to meet your Mr. Right you need to start eliminating the wrong men from your dating life.

Here are 6 of the most common types of men who distract women from finding right man.

Mr. Perfect

He can be imaginary or a real person. Most single women have had a fantasy of a perfect man in their head at some point in their lives. An idealized version of what you think your soul mate should be.

The problem with Mr. Perfect is, he has no flaws. When you search for a perfect man, you usually wind up alone. You'll pass over any number of men who might be your soul mate because none of them can measure up to his imaginary perfection.

Mr. Wrong

Mr. Wrong is someone that's not right for us. That guy that's "not your type." Many single women have a very good idea of what they do and don't want in a man. In this case you have a man that doesn't meet your requirements for a soul mate.

The problem with Mr. Wrong is, sometimes he's actually Mr. Right. If your dealbreaker list is longer than your arm, it's likely you're excluding some men who could be your soul mate. Just narrowing down the amount of items on your dealbreaker list can open up a world of possibilities when it comes to meeting Mr. Right.

Mr. Right Now

We've all met men that were just fun to be with. Those exciting dynamic personalities that attract people to them like bees to honey. Many single women fall for Mr. Right Now and get swept up in the thrill of the moment.

Unfortunately that moment doesn't last. Many relationships with Mr. Right Now fizzle out after you get to know each other. He may be your soul mate, but you'll never know if you move too fast into a relationship. Take your time and get to know your dates before you get excited about the possibilities.

Mr. Right For Now

If you've ever been set up on a date with someone who was "perfect for you.: You know the pressure people can put on your to be with someone. That pressure can lead you to date someone who may not be exactly what you're looking for, but you're only dating him "for now."

First of all, this isn't really fair for him, and you're not being fair to yourself. You're both wasting your time, if you don't feel he's the man you want to be with. Don't date someone just to please other people. Before you start dating someone look at your dealbreaker list. If he passes that test, give him a chance. If it doesn't work start looking elsewhere.

Mr. Right But

Have you ever dated someone who seemed like a great guy, but you weren't sure he was what you really wanted. After all some of your friends may have said you could do better. And, while he measured up to the dealbreaker list, there are some things you wish you could change.

You know, there is a good case for settling. Not settling for just any man. If you settled for any man you'd usually end up with the wrong one. However there's no reason you should not settle for a man that's otherwise perfect for you that has a few flaws. After all, don't you have some imperfections. You don't want to break up with a man only to come to the conclusion that he was your soul mate.

Finding your soul mate is not as simple as it seems. As you can see wrong man can easily be the right man in disguise and vice versa. That's why you need to make sure you know what you want in a relationship so that when you find it, you'll be able to recognize it.

You can discover the secrets to meeting your soul mate with the right dating tips and advice. Dating does not have to be difficult if you have some help. Discover how to find love and build a long-term healthy relationship. Sign up to receive the FREE Dating Tips for Finding Love Newlatter. Go here:

Shoshana "Shana" Jackson is a life coach, freelance writer and blogger.

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