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If He Won't Marry You No Matter How Hard You Try, Just Leave

May 06, 2012 | Comments: 0 | Views: 170

A man may have reasons why he will not commit to marriage. His past or the person he is with can have a large impact on how he feels about marriage. Some things you can do to change his mind but there are also situations that you can do nothing about.

Waiting forever

I know of a couple that lived together many years. He had a business and she worked for him. Which was a smart move on her part as their money was separate. After about eight years the relationship dissolved and she moved out. The arrangement worked out pretty good for him. He had someone he could trust to manage his business while he was gone 2 weekends a month. They lived above the business so it worked out very nicely for him. They had no children which was a blessing. What she found out later was that he was having a good time with women. Many times he had been with his single brother, but it was not all innocent as he tried to make her believe.

Looking back she had all the red flags to see that her relationship with that man was all wrong and that he would never commit. The only regret she had was not seeing it sooner. At least she was able to find a great job. Shortly thereafter she found a great man and got married.

Children are no guarantee of commitment

Having children together does not necessarily make a man eager to commit. I know of one man who has two children with the same woman. He's in the girls lives but yet has not spent much time with their mother. I am not sure if they ever even lived together for more than a few months. The girls are almost grown now. Sometimes men will not commit because of their history as a child growing up in a troubled family. This man had 2 brothers. One married to the same woman for years and never had children. The other brother got married had two children and after many years divorced, then remarried and divorced again. I have lost track as to his status now, there was another woman later but I can't recall if he married her. In this case he probably shouldn't.

There are men wanting to marry

There is not just only one person in this life for you. There are potentially many men you could be compatible with. If marriage is important to you and the man you are with will not commit to marriage, maybe it is time to move on. It makes no sense in life to settle if a man will not commit to you. Does it mean that when the chips are down he will leave? Like the better or for worse part, when you need someone the most will he be there for you. He may say he will but, if he will not marry you, his actions say otherwise. It may only be a piece of paper but it bonds people together officially. If the guy is afraid of a contract then he can't really be serious about the relationship. That might not be true, but do you really want to take that risk?

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