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Moving on From Divorce For Men - Goal Setting

February 18, 2012 | Comments: 0 | Views: 204

Goal setting is an important part of any sort of successful venture form business to your personal life. Being able to set goals and then achieve them is the only way we can truly achieve anything in life by merit and not by accident. While goal setting and achievement all sound so business like they can directly transfer to your private life, relationships, and of course - moving on from divorce for men.

However, the goals we set in our jobs are often quite clearly defined by your manager, or by your own understanding of the business. Goals in your post divorce life are very vague, shifting around so ti is hard to get a hold of them, and sometimes do not even seem to be there at all. So many men after divorce feel directionless and adrift which makes targeting particular milestones along the journey to recovery impossible because there does not seem to be a recovery. Without sight of the end goal these guys cannot take a step forward because there is no path. This is a great problem and the first that you need to overcome before you can truly set more short term goals.

Dare To Dream

The goal at the end of the journey is a dream, a vision of who you want to be and where you want to be. It does not mean you will be that exact vision but it is an aspiration long term goal you need to shoot for. The first issue is that it seems to unrealistic and far away most guys give up on the dream, but the purpose of this vision is not to make it or be broken, it is to give you that path - no matter how faint to follow to get closer to the dream. Once you have a direction you can plan short term goals to getting there.

Small successes build confidence and make your life better bit by bit. Each time you succeed at achieving a few short term goals your vision will become clearer and might change and adapt. Each time you set a few more and follow to do them the path becomes easier to see and follow.

Before you know it you feel yourself climbing that mountain to the very peak and loving every minute of it. Even if you do not achieve that dream the journey itself WAS the recovery not the end result which might be wildly different - but still good and better than were you were.

Guys, to discover more on how you can move on from separation and divorce, click below and get some helpful advice on post-divorce living and take your next step to being happy, successful and free!

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