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The Power to Get Anything You Want Lies Within You

April 13, 2012 | Comments: 0 | Views: 144

Are you suffering from the Cinderella syndrome? By that I mean sitting around waiting for someone to come along and wave a magic wand and make everything in your world perfect! While it worked for Cinderella, I am sorry to say that the rest of us do not have the privileges that she had. She was the exception to the rule.The rest of us can sit forever waiting for someone to hand us that golden opportunity to make millions, to hand us fame, health or wealth. But the cold hard fact to life is that no-one on this earth can rely on someone else to give us what we want. Happiness and success is an inside job, only you can make you happy. Only you can decide you will do what is necessary for good health. Others can certainly help us on our journey, but first we must decide what we want, we must decide to do what it takes to get there.

While this may sound a bit harsh, the truth of it has been proven time and time again throughout the ages. Some people are given the toughest of circumstances to deal with, they are given the worst of breaks. Rather than fold and crumble, they have endured and risen to great heights in their life. Others catch a cold and its the end of the world! No matter what happens, it's always a drama and they spend all their time telling the world about it and not making the decision to accept what hand has been dealt to them and finding a way to over come it.

It is easier to wait or expect someone else to come along and solve all our problems. It is much more difficult to accept responsibility for our own lives and to find a solution and act upon it to improve things. You hear it all the time - it was always the some other persons fault why someone is unhappy or broke. It was their spouses fault, their boss's fault, the banks fault, the economic times fault, it was the governments fault!! Geez the list is as long as the Great Wall in China.

But I am here to say no, that is not right. Some of those things may have contributed to your situation for sure, but it is how you react to those things that makes your life the way it is now. And that is the secret to a happy life. No one can make you think something, no one can make you feel something... unless you decide to let them. Everyone has an opinion, some stronger than others. But are they right in their opinion, because after all - an opinion is just some individuals perception of something. Every one see's things differently.

A friend might laugh at you when you say you want to become an actor, they may tell you how you would suck at it, that it's a risky business, you are not tall enough, short enough, skinny enough, or they may say you don't have the drop dead gorgeous looks. But are they right? Do you just take their word, their perception of things as gospel? Do you give up on your dream? No! If you want to become an actor you need to keep your faith, but not only that, you need to do what it takes to become your dream. Take those acting lessons, speech lessons or improve your body or appearance. Learn how to walk, talk, act and look like an actor or actress and that is what you will become.

Never listen to the dream stealers. They are only coming from their own point of view. They may truly love you and are only trying to protect you from the disappointment of failure, or they may feel threatened by you. After all, if you do make it, then they have no more excuses why they shouldn't make it- you will have proved it can be done.

So leave Cinderella and her fairy Godmother where they are - as a wonderful story of fiction - and begin to write your own true story in the stars. It all begins with you and you alone. You must decide what you want, you must plan how to get it, and most important of all - you must act upon your plan. In essence you are your own fairy Godmother - you can make all things possible with dedication, belief, and a willingness to act. Wave your own magic wand and see what happens.

My goal is to educate and inspire people to be the best that they can be. Whether in health, wealth or personal self development Brewer International is there to assist all who visit. Sign up for our Newsletter that offers loads of free information for health, wealth and personal development all mixed with a bit of humour and some fantastic quotes. Everyone deserves the best in life, everyone deserves the opportunity to learn and grow. Please visit us at our website link above, and join us in the journey for a full and happy life.

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