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Save My Marriage: Staying Together If You Fight All the Time

April 19, 2012 | Comments: 0 | Views: 149

A lot of couples start to worry about the health of their marriage when they start to fight on a regular basis. Certainly fighting should be a concern but it is by no means a good reason in itself to end your marriage. If your marriage can't stand up to a few fights then you have much bigger problems that need to be addressed. The key to a healthy marriage is not to avoid fighting but to make sure that you do it in a productive way.

The first thing that you have to understand is that you are going to have fights, all couples do. The time you should really start worrying is if you never fight as this is a pretty good sign that you don't really care about the relationship any more. Fighting will help to keep your relationship strong as it will allow you to work out problems that you may have. That being said there is a limit to how much you should be fighting in a healthy relationship.

The times that you should worry about how often you fight is when you are fighting for no obvious reason. There are a lot of people who seek out conflict just because they find it stimulating, if you are doing this it is not a good sign. A fight should be because you have a genuine disagreement that you are trying to resolve. The other sign that you may have a problem with the amount that you fight is when you find yourself starting fights because you are angry with your partner but really don't know why. If this is the case then there is a pretty good chance that there is a serious underlying issue that needs to be addressed.

If you and your partner are going to fight you have to make sure that you do it in a proper way. The main thing is to make sure that you focus on the issue that is in dispute and that you don't start to attack the other person on a personal level. You also have to keep in mind that winning at all costs is not a good approach, you may win the fight but you will also seriously hurt the relationship. One last thing that you have to keep in mind when you fight is that there needs to be some sort of end to it. You don't necessarily have to come to an agreement but you do have to at least agree to disagree.

A lot of people ask "how can I save my marriage?" There are lots of programs that can help but Save My Marriage Today is one of the most useful.

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