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Save My Marriage: How to Fight

April 19, 2012 | Comments: 0 | Views: 168

One of the keys to having a healthy and successful marriage is to learn how to fight. A lot of couples try to avoid fighting because they think that it is a sign that there are problems in their marriage. Nothing could actually be further from the truth. There are going to be issues that need to be addressed and expecting that you are going to agree on everything is completely unrealistic. Knowing how to have a fight and do it in a productive way will help to keep your marriage strong.

The most important thing that you have to keep in mind when you are fighting with your partner is to make sure that you stick to the issue at hand. A lot of times fights can degenerate into personal attacks and this is when really hurtful things can be said. There is nothing to be gained from this other than possibly winning the fight. This is a perfect example of a Pyrrhic victory as it will almost certainly lead to more serious issues down the road.

One thing that gets a lot of people into trouble when they fight is the belief that they should be able to tell their partner anything. There is a tendency to believe that this is the sign of a healthy relationship, it isn't. There are certain things that just should not be said, usually about your partner's shortcomings. Unfortunately a lot of times during a fight these things get said and that leads to more serious problems. You have to make sure that you watch what you say during a fight so that you don't say something that you can't take back.

One of the most important things that you have to keep in mind when you are fighting is that you do have to come to some sort of resolution to the fight. This does not mean that you have to actually resolve the issue; there are in fact many issues in a marriage that can't be resolved. You do however have to find a way to move past the issue even if it is simply agreeing to disagree.

A good fight can be very helpful for a marriage but you do have to be careful to make sure that you are fighting for the right reasons. There needs to be an actual issue that needs to be resolved to make fighting worthwhile. If you are fighting for other reasons it may be a sign that there are other problems in the marriage that need to be addressed.

A lot of people ask "how can I save my marriage?" There are lots of programs that can help but Save My Marriage Today is one of the most useful.

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