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Save My Marriage: Can You Stay Together If You Have Serious Disagreements?

April 19, 2012 | Comments: 0 | Views: 144

A lot of couples have disagreements and in a lot of cases these disagreements can lead to divorce. On the other hand there are couples that disagree about almost everything and yet are able to maintain a healthy marriage. The difference is that the couples that stay together understand that they don't have to agree on everything.

One of the biggest myths there is about marriage is that you and your partner have to agree on everything, this is actually not the case. There is little chance that the two of you are going to agree on everything and in truth the marriage would be quite dull if you did. You have to accept that you are different people and you are not going to agree on everything.

The problem that a lot of couples encounter when they have disagreement is that they expect that they will be able to come to some sort of agreement. In order to do this it requires that the two of you compromise. In a lot of cases this works fine but there will likely be some issues on which there can't be any compromise. It may be that the two of you have very different values and beliefs and that coming to an agreement would require one you to sacrifice these values. In this case there is no way that you are going to be able to come to an agreement.

When you do come to issues where you and your partner can't come to an agreement you are going to have to find a way to move past it. The best thing that you can do is simply to acknowledge the fact that you won't come to an agreement. It is possible to have a perfectly healthy relationship even if you don't agree on some pretty important issues.

While you do not have to be able to agree with your partner on everything it is important that the two of you be able to get along. That means that you are going to have to be able to reach closure at least at an emotional level. That means that you have to accept your partner's point of view and not try to change it. This can be hard to do but there is little chance that you will be able to change their mind so it is really the only thing that you can do if you want to keep your marriage strong.

A lot of people ask "how can I save my marriage?" There are lots of programs that can help but Save My Marriage Today is one of the most useful.

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