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How to Get a Guy to Propose - 3 SECRETS You Haven't Heard

June 23, 2012 | Comments: 0 | Views: 165

Every day there are women asking the same ol' question - "How to get a guy to propose?" Unfortunately, this question doesn't come with a simple answer - but there are things that you can start doing today that will silently push him to propose!

#1 Gather Up Your Married Friends

Friends can be one of the most powerful influences in one's life. If you and your man have a lot of friends that are married - these are the people that you need to be spending time with (assuming that they're happily married)! Most men are hesitant to propose because they have fears of married life. Hanging out with friends who are married and having just as much fun with them will show him that he can be married, have fun and still hold on to his sense of freedom.

On the flipside, surrounding yourself with the rowdy singles group might be detrimental to your relationship. Some single friends (depending on their personality) have the ability to create a barrier between you and your man by getting him to participate in things that aren't conducive to your relationship - especially taking it to the next level. Be careful who you call over for your next backyard BBQ!

#2 Figure Out Who His Dream Wife Is

No, this doesn't mean that he has another "dream" woman that he wants to marry, but rather the person that he imagines one day being his wife. As children, women dream about their wedding day and men dream about the woman that they will call "wife" one day. Whether he admits it or not, he has an "ideal wife" created in his head.

Ask questions about the future and listen to what he has to say. A lot of times men drop major hints about what they are looking for in a woman at the most inopportune time. Figure out what is most important to him in a wife and take on those characteristics.

You must also remember that you shouldn't alter your core beliefs and values for a man. When suggesting changing to be his ideal wife, it simply means doing the little things that he is looking for like cooking, becoming interested in his hobbies or entertaining.

#3 Show Him Your Ready

If you're still wondering how to get a guy to propose (and you've tried the other two secrets), you are going to have to resort to telling him you feel about him and that you would like to take the relationship to the next level. Surprisingly, a lot of men hesitate when it comes to proposing because they aren't confident that their girlfriend will say yes. Be bold and sit him down for a casual conversation about marriage and your future together. Be sure not to use threatening words or give ultimatums. These types of conversations will only push him further away!

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