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Does Texting or Calling Your Lover Help or Hinder Your Relationship?

April 13, 2012 | Comments: 0 | Views: 122

Are you obsessed with calling or texting your lover frequently? If yes, then have you ever given a thought to it whether it is good for your relationship or not? Texting and calling have been an indispensable activity in relationships from quite sometime, but the pros and cons of them have never been explored. However, the results of these activities may vary from person to person; but most of the time it shows over-possessiveness and highly obsessive behavior of your lover. Read on this article for understanding the positive and negative effects of frequent texting and calling your lover.

The Negative Effects:

• Texting can sometimes be awfully annoying. When you are busy in a meeting then last thing you would expect is to answer how much you love me, or if you are with friends and a text comes asking how cute your friends are.

• These kind of meaningless texts are quite irritating and lead to ire in relationships. Even calling your lover frequently when he/she is avoiding the call being busy with some other appointment is also not a good sign for a healthy alliance.

• One more negative facet of frequent texting and calling is the intrusion to someone's privacy. If you are in a relationship, it doesn't mean that your partner is answerable to all your questions about his/her whereabouts.

• Personal freedom and privacy should always be respected in any alliance. Sometimes getting frequent messaging and calls puts you in awkward situation when you are in middle of any official or important conference.

The Positive Effects:

However, not always calling or messaging your lover bring negative effects. Sometimes sweet messages reading "I love you" make you happy. Texting is the best thing while you are getting bore or sitting alone in a waiting room.

Frequent messaging and calling show your lover's concern towards you. It's lovely to get some nice poems, motivational messages or even some work-related messages from your loved one. This shows that you matters a lot for someone who all the time thinks about you and your aspirations.

Nice love messages are not at all infuriating rather soothes your senses when you are feeling lonely and quite far away from your love.

A last word:

As a conclusion, it is right to say that every relationship has its own demands and necessities, hence texting and calling to your lover depends on personal liking and disliking. Both the partners should understand each other choices before making any move. Everyone should be given full space to make a relation healthy and happy. Texting and calling your lover should be more of help to your partner rather than a hindrance to your alliance.

Do you keep calling or texting your lover because you are possessive? It may not be very healthy for your relationship. See what experts at has to say.

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