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6 Most Important Tips a Mature Woman Needs to Do to Hold Her Man After The First Couple of Dates

April 17, 2012 | Comments: 0 | Views: 205

Well, here's a few pointers that help.

  • The worse thing you can do is try and change him.
  • If you can take an honest look at yourself and you are the nagging, being bossy, jealous, not listening type of woman, then look to change them.
  • Find the middle ground. This doesn't mean to compromise your own values.
  • Get out of the middle age rut, change your wardrobe, go on a weight reduction program, a makeover, change your hairstyle and color. If you are more salt and pepper, try going platinum. Take some meditation classes.
  • Above all get rid of the stresses in your life. That's the last thing you want in your relationship.
  • Get the chemistry going - you know, that magic allure.

Your partner will not be perfect and will have baggage of some kind. But start with yourself - look at your own baggage.

I'm sure we are all aware of the ratio of so few males to the number of available females. But it doesn't alter the fact that it's the male quality that is at stake. So often when dating its like, "What you see is what you get".

So the burning question is. How do you deal with this very typical male attitude of the average guy. As we mature women know from our past experiences, trying to change the new man in your life to fit what you want, just doesn't work.

A few things to be mindful about with respect to meeting the challenges of a new relationship: Firstly and I would strongly suggest you give a lot of consideration to this before you even go on your first date.

Find the middle ground and by this I don't mean you have to compromise your personal standards. No, not at all. and second, reevaluate what you expect to get from a long term relationship.

After all, you have probably have lots of experience after spending years of marriage to one guy, raising children, possibly holding down a full time career or job yourself.

Now for the first or maybe even a second time you are single - your children are grown up and you are actually enjoying the benefits of not having to be responsible and accountable to an unappreciative spouse who was taking you for granted or even worse.

But at the same time, you are now feeling the desire to start again. You want some passion and companionship in your life. But now of course you are no longer in your twenties. Possibly you have let yourself go a bit - maybe overweight, the worry lines are telling.

Today these things can be rectified but in the end they are secondary. At fifty plus there are other more important things,like your inner strength, your ability to see the wider picture in life.

It comes to mind the old adage, Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. It's never too late to develop that inner beauty. Believe it or not the things that attract a mature man at this stage are personality and chemistry, and of course the all important allure.

I was talking to my niece the other day. She and her husband have just turned 50 and she said to me when we were talking about relationships and marriage etc.

"You know Kate, the recipe for a stable relation boils down to great sex, great meals, boost his ego when appropriate, communicate,give unconditional love, be happy and don't sweat the small stuff."

Well it must be working because although they are both extremely busy with their own individual lives, they have built a fantastic life together.

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