Author Box
Articles Categories
All Categories
Articles Resources

Our Need For New Attitude Towards Women

February 07, 2012 | Comments: 0 | Views: 151

Some of the times, we are tempted to see women from the glossy and scintillating colour of sexual intercourse. It is usually an overpowering but negative feeling that takes over the mind and brain. It is clear to me that this thought pattern is bad for the necessary relationship we have and ought to have with the opposite sex.

Our relationship with the opposite sex is designed to produce the sweetest and most rewarding experiences of our earth life. This relationship between men and women is the foundation for and the pathway to the creation of the family which is the basic foundation of a stable society.

Because the establishment of a family work best when it is done by two people of the opposite sex who are in love and genuinely so. Because love is much more than a feeling. Because the best description of love is sacrifice. Because the best act of love is service. Because the really right spelling love is TIME. Because best attitude towards love is appreciation. Because the right way to show love is giving. Because the right way to teach love is kindly. Because the right way to handle love is tenderly. Because the best thing to do for love is praise. And because of all these reasons, seeing a woman from the freckled coloured glass of sex is not just faulty, it is dirty, abusive, demeaning and actually undermines our real need for the companionship of the opposite sex and for all intents and purposes.

Even as it is well known that most women come into a relationship with an ingrained dependency syndrome and a thought that she has nothing else to offer but her body and sexual organ for the excitement of man, it is still the place of the man to teach her the truth. The truth being that she is far worth more than an object of sexual expression. She is a partner in the circle of life. She is a companion, she is a queen and she is worth everything she gets in life without shortchanging herself.

Because it is not true that women are the underdog in the relationship. Because marriage is a union of equal yokes. Because the two partners complement and complete one another. Because inequality will destroy the relationship. Because the woman is not inferior to the man. Because the woman is actually intrinsically more endowed than the man as a result of her God given or nature designed role in the circle of life. Because the economic supposed superiority claimed by the man is actually only complementary. And because of these points and more, women need a new mindset that would remove the self-sabotage they have imposed on themselves. Men have a responsibility here to help by a change of their attitude and how esteem women in their hearts.

There is a psychological warfare between the sexes that should not be there. The war of superiority. Because it takes two to tango. Because men and women bring different roles for the proper formation of the family, no party really have the right to claim anything above one another. Because of all the above mentioned issues, women should develop an attitude of self-preservation and self-worth while dealing with men.

The trouble with women, though not the excuse for men to misuse them, in my perception, is that they not only underrate what they bring into a relationship, they have narrowed their worth to providing sexual gratification and at best bear children for men with the expectation of having their needs paid for by the men.

Powerless women seem to feel good for men. It is clear from experience that men generally dread and therefore, resent all the endowments of women or powerful women. Looking at women from the freckled colour glass of sex, seeing them as objects of male sexual satisfaction is most likely a weapon in the arsenal of the men for the prosecution of the war of the sexes. If men win the war with this weapon, they also defeat themselves.

Because every man first had a mother. Because the other women in his life include his sisters. Because no man can truly win the game of life without a woman who have sacrificed all she had to support and cheer him to victory as a wife. Because men also beget daughters. Because men love all these women in their lives. Because of all these reasons, it has become necessary to call upon and warn men to change their attitude towards women among whom are our mothers, sisters, wives and daughters - put in the order of meeting them - who are the source and stay of our lives.

Francis Nmeribe helps people who desire a joyful relationship in their dating, courtship and marriage relationships. He is the author of numerous great relationship and personal development articles and books including - "Foundation For Joyful Relationships", "Wrong Reasons For Getting Married", "Growing From Your Experiences", "Action Quotes". If you need help with your dating, courtship and marriage relationships, contact Francis Nmeribe at Subscribe to the RSS Feeds and get a free copy of the Ebook version of "Wrong Reasons For Getting Married". Read more free relationship articles on my blog Email:

Source: EzineArticles
Was this Helpful ?

Rate this Article

Article Tags:

Attitude Towards Women


Esteem Women


Women Need


Powerless Women

When speaking of celebrity weddings, they dresses are mostly tailored and designed form reputed international designers. Say for example, Dutch Victoria’s Secret model Doutzen Kroes. When speaking

By: Simon Liva l Relationships > Wedding l December 12, 2012 lViews: 215

Funny groom speeches play an important role in making the wedding atmosphere nice and relaxed. Wedding is all about celebration and enjoyment and the best way of adding to the celebration is to make

By: Bartley de Wilson l Relationships > Wedding l November 29, 2012 lViews: 219

The wedding cards of every religion have something peculiar and convey a lot about the religion. There are various online stores that are solely designing Muslim wedding cards and there is an option

By: Indian Wedding Card l Relationships > Wedding l November 29, 2012 lViews: 388

Practice makes pretty! Make sure the dance floor is right for the song and practice plenty of time before hand.Practice makes pretty! Make sure the dance floor is right for the song and practice

By: Simon Liva l Relationships > Wedding l November 21, 2012 lViews: 281

Wedding invitations are very important as they are the first impression and unique wedding invitations are generally kept by the guests. The wedding is an auspicious occasion and all the rituals are

By: Indian Wedding Card l Relationships > Wedding l November 16, 2012 lViews: 445

A closer look into the popular series of books called Fifty Shades of Grey that has spurred women all over America to get in touch with the sensual side in life. It's about letting your daily

By: martha l Relationships > Sexuality l October 25, 2012 lViews: 307

Please Help Me Dear Philanthropist, for I have fallen under a bit of bad luck lately and all the things that I have ever done wrong are coming to settle up with me. And without You lifting even a

By: James Dazouloutel Relationships > Friendshipl June 12, 2012 lViews: 229

I hate the phone. If you know me, you know this. I would rather text you or Facebook you or email you or chat face-to-face then pick up the phone and call you. This is true at work and in my personal

By: Stephanie Goddardl Relationships > Friendshipl June 11, 2012 lViews: 173

Go through your repertoire of friends. Take a quick look. Now describe a few. When asked to do this, more often than not you'll describe them in how they are as a friend to you and classify them

By: Jamie P. Johnsonl Relationships > Friendshipl June 09, 2012 lViews: 196

Sometimes it gets really complicated when it comes to friends belonging to the opposite sex. The hardest part is that you never know what's going on in their head. You can deny it all you want but

By: Jamie P. Johnsonl Relationships > Friendshipl June 08, 2012 lViews: 339

home, so they will go around scattering things from here to there, knowing fully well that this often get parents mad. They make silly jokes about you even in the presence of your parents, relatives

By: Godlove Tabi Njutl Relationships > Friendshipl June 08, 2012 lViews: 178

Writing it is one thing, delivering it is something else. Writing a eulogy commemorating a family member or close friend can be a daunting task.

By: Tim Brycel Relationships > Friendshipl June 08, 2012 lViews: 203

Exciting sexual intercourse is 99% fantasy. Even the daydream is over most times before it ever started. The practitioners are left with more confusion than satisfaction. This is why you have people

By: Francis Nmeribel Relationships > Sexualityl June 26, 2012 lViews: 227

Most men and women want to have offspring. In many cultures getting your wife pregnant is the proof of manhood. Getting pregnant is the authenticity many a woman would ever see in her life time. So

By: Francis Nmeribel Relationships > Affairsl April 13, 2012 lViews: 180