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How to Keep Your Boyfriend From Taking You for Granted

February 21, 2012 | Comments: 0 | Views: 672

Being taken granted by your boyfriend is a torturous fate I have encountered in the past. As a result, I've done my best to equip myself with the necessary knowledge and skills to prevent it from happening to me ever again. I am pleased to say I have succeeded. So by introducing these 3 steps of how to keep your boyfriend from taking you for granted, I hope you too will receive undying love from your boyfriend as well!

Step 1. Take a step back from being nice to your boyfriend.

If your boyfriend takes you for granted, it simply means you have been too nice to him. So to pull him back, you need to force yourself to feign disinterest towards him - the kind you have towards other guys who don't matter to you. This usually involves ignoring your boyfriend for an entire day.

The problem with many women is they imagine you can 'make' someone like you more by being nicer to him or her. This is extremely flawed thinking and must be corrected and disposed of at once! The sooner you recognize this is not a one plus one equals two world, and that being nice to someone does not guarantee you they will be nice back to you, the sooner you will see the a difference in the way your boyfriend treats you.

Also, there is nothing wrong with ignoring the people who are mean to you (hint: a boyfriend who takes you for granted is being mean). You are simply returning an eye for an eye. Do not worry about being nice to people who have mistreated you with disrespect in the past. If your boyfriend doesn't call you once a day now, ignore him until he physically comes to look for you. If he demands to know why you went missing, say "I've been busy." If he gets angry, at least you know you matter enough to him that you can still push his buttons and he doesn't feel indifferent towards you.

Be less of a nicer person and more of who you truly are. Stand up for your unique likes and dislikes. Don't put up with any of your boyfriend's excuses. Much better to be good to yourself instead of waiting for other people to be good to you. Don't end up regretting trying to use the same strategy to achieve a different outcome and result.

Step 2. Take a mandatory and self-imposed holiday away from your boyfriend.

If he already takes you for granted, then this is a repair job and you need to take drastic measures. Even if he is not taking you for granted right now, forcing yourself to go for a holiday far away from him, and without any way for him to contact you, is a sure and guaranteed way to make him miss and thus cherish you more. If after taking a prolonged holiday away without him, he does not take the effort to chase you again, I insist that you prepare your heart that this man has already lost interest in you. Much better to end this relationship and start another one (with the right foundation) instead of trying to repair a badly damaged relationship.

Step 3. Prepare yourself for battle... because the person you are truly fighting with, is yourself.

The hardest part of how to keep a boyfriend from taking you for granted is the need to fight against your old habits and ways of doing things. Remember: it's precisely your current habits and ways of treating your boyfriend that has landed you in this mess in the first place. Hence, you are going to need a complete turnaround... a makeover. Which is why another benefit of taking an extended holiday and period away is that you get a nice break from the mundane - which will help you break out of old routines, habits and patterns. Scramble and mix things up! Only by doing so, can you hope to achieve your goal of being a cherished, adored and worshipped by your boyfriend. This is what you want, is it not?

Here's how I got from being 'Totally Confused' about men... to knowing how to melt his heart and be Cherished and Adored ...Forever!

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