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How To Have Better Sex With Your Husband

February 27, 2012 | Comments: 0 | Views: 363

We all know that sex is a very important part of any marriage. Knowing how to keep things hot for the both of you will take you to places you've never been before. Above all else, however, always remember that sex can be incredible if you are in love. Take the time to remember the romantic things you and your husband used to do for each other. Always keep in mind how much you love him. Inviting him out for a date can revive those early-relationship feelings and can even lead to great sex tonight.

To lend even more excitement for you and your husband, dress up in a sexy outfit that makes you feel great and that you know he'd enjoy, and don't let him see it until you are ready to go out. This can help to bring back memories of when you first got together and all was still fresh and exciting. Kick it up a notch by wearing sexy lingerie underneath your outfit; if you've got the house to yourselves, wear the lingerie for when he comes home from work; that will definitely give him a nice surprise!

If you plan on having your date at home, tidy up your house and set up the dinner table with candles. Prepare a lighter meal for the both of you so that if the mood strikes, you won't be worrying about a full stomach. By creating this mood, you can induce a wave of nostalgia of your first date together; and contrary to what a lot of people think, men can be wooed like women can be. Let him be reminded of how the two of you started out, how easily you turned each other on without being anywhere near the bedroom. Creating this special mood and making an effort to have great sex is a sure way to make the bond between you and your husband stronger, helping to make the marriage last.

Don't just save the preparations for the dining room, make your bedroom a relaxing, comfortable place for you and your partner. Tidy up the clutter and remove distracting items. Change the sheets from your everyday cotton ones to silk or satin sheets and place candles in safe containers all around the room.

Pick the perfect time. It's not simply a matter of making time for sex; pinpoint the days and specific hours when you are more likely to have high energy levels and achieve orgasms more readily. Research has found that some women have better, more frequent orgasms during days 6 to 10 of their menstrual cycle (the first day being the first day of a period), which can absolutely help the both of you have a better experience during sex. The exact time of day doesn't really make a difference as the sex hormones are fairly consistent over the course of a day; however, just make sure you aren't too tired.

You can also purchase some toys to try out, and lubricant is a definite must-have. Make use of strawberries, chocolates and whipped cream if the mood strikes. Adult movies can also be watched, perhaps giving you ideas of things you might like to try.

Your spouse will be very pleased to see how much work you have put in to create such a special night for the two of you. He might even be so impressed that thinking of how much work you've done will act as a sort of foreplay for him. This night will more than likely be a memorable one and will help to continue strengthening the relationship between you and your husband.

My name is Iris and I'm in mid 40s. A mother to 4 kids. I have a happy family now, but I had a bad experience Reaching orgasm when I was 20s. I didn't expect to encounter low in sexual desire. To save my marriage, I struggled to find solutions and learned to understand my body. Now, I reclaimed my women hood and my mission is to help any men & women with same problems to enjoy their full sexual potential

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