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Get a Man To Commit - 5 Things Every Women Should Know

April 23, 2012 | Comments: 0 | Views: 295

A women that wants to get a man to commit needs to understand how men think, what men find attractive in a women and how they react to women in different situations. It can be a tough balancing act. Whether you want to make him like you or make him love you must find ways to meet his needs and lessen his fear of commitment without giving up your identity or not having your own needs met.Sometimes women take the ill fated advice of other well meaning women who tell them that all that is needed to do is to learn how to "train your man". This does not work and can cause serious damage to a relationship before the women realizes what has happened.

Every relationship is unique. What follows are some guidelines that usually help to guide a man to commitand help the relationship to move in the right direction. Keep in mind that no matter how bad you want it some relationships were never meant to be but as long as a women goes in with her eyes wide open she can usually do things to nudge the relationship in the right direction.

First Tip. Men are attracted to women who are a bit mysterious. We are not talking about keeping secrets or being untruthful but a man that "discovers" little things about a women he is dating is likely to find the relationship more exciting. A women that pours out her heart to a man to quickly or who wants to share everything about herself in the hope that it will bring them closer together is usually going about it the wrong way. Men like excitement, women like stability. Maintaining a certain mysterious quality about yourself will help keep him interested in you.

Second Tip: Keep him guessing about the relationship especially at the outset. Girls whether we like it or not most guys like a challenge. Let him pursue you for awhile, don't give in to easily! It is okay to show interest in a man but avoid falling all over yourself to please him as if he is the best thing since sliced bread. Having somewhat of a reserved attitude when it comes to the relationship will keeping him guessing just a bit and might possibly make him that much more attracted to you. He wants to win you over so let him.

Third Tip: You may be sexually attracted to him. It may be the first thing you noticed about him. We women are not that much different than men in this respect. However men will sometimes stop seeing a women if they go to bed on the first date.Jumping into bed with a man on the first date is usually a recipe for disaster and can end a relationship rather quickly. Men at times consider women as nothing more than a conquest and will move on once they have gotten what they want. Hold off if possible on having sexual intercourse with a man until the relationship has matured, he has proposed or you are married.

A final thought. You may feel that moving in together is the next logical step to get him to commit to you. What you see as a move that will bring you closer to marriage he may see in a totally different way. By moving in with him you have given him everything he wants without him having to make the commitment of marriage.

You are a unique and wonderfully made individual. There is a man for you. One who is ready to devote himself to you and give you a life of love and happiness.

Learn how to go from girlfriend to fiance.

Learn the surprising reasons why men hold back from committing fully to women and the actions you can take to encourage him to make a lifelong commitment to you.

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