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What To Do In An Abusive Relationship - Stay Or Leave?

April 14, 2012 | Comments: 0 | Views: 169

Have you wondered what to do in a situation of abuse? Should you stay and try to change an abusive man? Should you walk out? Maybe you know someone who is in such a situation or maybe you are in one yourself. Maybe the man has never lifted a finger on you, but his words are scathing. Maybe after every conversation with him, you feel as if you have been through the wringer and it is weighing you down. Find your answers here, dearest.

Abuse is abuse. Many women have said that verbal is way worse than physical. You can heal from physical wounds, but emotional wounds take way longer to go.

The first thing you have to do is forgive and get the word "abuse" out of your head. Why is that? Because if you keep on thinking of it and keep on talking about it, you will draw more to you. What you focus on grows larger.

Make a list of all the good things about him. You want to change your vibration about the whole situation.

Ask yourself what you could have done different. If we encounter something, we have drawn it to us.

Leave since your basic values have been violated. Only God can change people. We can only hope to inspire.

The only person you can change is yourself. But you first have to do all this work before you head out that door or ask him to. This is because you want to stop the evil in its tracks. After this, don't be talking to your family and girlfriends about this incessantly. You might feel better for a moment but it is bad for you in the long run.

Trust me, there is someone amazing out there for you. Next time, when you feel there's something "off" about the man you're dating, take it as a sign that he might not be the one. Because believe it or not, there are many, many single men out there who are ready, willing, and able to take care of you.

So why settle for a man who isn't?

Now you know that you have to leave an abusive relationship no matter how much you love the man. Abuse isn't love. If you want to learn more, please click here. It is knowledge well worth acquiring. Being forearmed with knowledge will help you make the right choices and lead a happy life. You owe it to yourself. Be blessed!

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Kimberly White is a dating and relationship expert. Her passion is to write informative articles for women who want to improve their love lives. Visit her site for more information.

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