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How to Handle an Ex Girlfriend That Is Dating a New Guy

April 16, 2012 | Comments: 0 | Views: 256

There are some situations that you think that you can handle when you don't have to really face the music and then when you actually do have to - you find out that you just can't deal with it the way that you thought you would be able to. Something that I think that every man can relate to is how hard it can be to try and handle finding out that your ex girlfriend is now with some new guy. It can make you feel like there is something wrong with you because you have not moved on yet. And, it can also make you feel like the dream that you had of you and her being able to smooth things out and get back together has pretty much turned to dust.

As hard as it may be to handle it when you find out that your ex girlfriend has someone new in her life, it's not really impossible to come out of this okay and maybe even better than you were before. Trust me when I say that if you can get over this and not let it wear you down too much, you should be able to deal with just about any relationship issues that you are going to have to handle in the future.

So, how do you handle an ex girlfriend that is dating a new guy?

Honestly, the best way to deal with this situation is to be happy for her. I know, that sounds kind of lame, but do you really want to be the kind of guy that resents someone's happiness, just because the woman you wanted to be with did not end up with you? Not only that, but think about what your ex girlfriend is going to think of you when she sees that you are happy for her and you are not resenting her one bit. That shows a lot of character, the kind of character that most guys just do not have.

The good thing about acting this way is... it DOES leave the door open for you and her to reunite somewhere down the road. See, when you act all resentful and angry about her being with a new guy, it just kind of makes you look like a jerk she is better off without. On the other hand, when you come across as being genuinely happy for her and you show her that you can handle this situation without coming undone, that makes you look better than ever. And since there is no resentment on her part, she is a lot more likely to end up giving you a second chance when her and this new guy don't last. Most of the time, they don't last because it ends up being just another rebound relationship.

It is not the easiest thing to deal with, but if your ex girlfriend is dating again you have to be able to handle it with class.

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Copyright © 2012 Chris G. Tyler All Rights Reserved.

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