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June 05, 2012 | Comments: 0 | Views: 98

You are successful in your goals. You have achieved all your hopes, yours dreams and your ambitions. Your are doing great in your business, your job or your career. You have climbed the cooperate ladder; you have made it to the top. That is good. So with all that success you think that you would be happy but you are not; because you are struggling with the biggest challenge of your life. . . your relationship with your significant other. You have spent years building your career, you have learnt all that you could about your job. You are an expert at what you do, but you are struggling to keep it together with your spouse. You are not alone, many highly successful people have found themselves in this situation. This is truly a part of life so you have to learn how to deal with it.

1. You must accept the fact that everyone is unique. It is not only our finger prints that are unique, our personalities are also unique. Therefore everyone must be treated with respect to their own individuality. One of the mistakes we make in relationships is to deal with everyone the same way.

2. It is very important that you take time to study and understand your partner. One of the most common reason for relationship break down is misunderstanding. You will have great difficulties maintaining a positive relationship with your spouse if you do not understand him/her. You have put so much in studying for your degree. You had to understand the subject so that you could be successful in your examinations. You need to put in just as much if not more time studying your spouse in order to improve your relationship. It take time to get it right.

3. You need to have a good understanding of your own self before you decide to get into an intimate relationship. You must be strong emotionally for yourself or you will not be able to help someone else. Your mental capacity must be solid so that you can think rationally. Relationships are not easy to maintain, it takes a lot of work. There is also the spiritual aspect of the person that has to be taken into consideration, for those who are so inclined. Many people go into relationships without a true understanding of their own personality, so when challenges come, they are not able to deal with them.

4. You must sharpen your communication tool if you want to make your relationship better. Talk. talk. and talk some more. Then listen, listen, listen till it hurts. Communication goes both ways and you have to learn how to do both effectively in order to have the kind of relationship you desired.

It is believed that when we go into relationships we would like then to be enjoyable. When you enter in an intimate relationship you intend for it to be successful. However, sometimes many challenges prevent us from having such desired outcome. You have to prepare for relationships just like you prepare for your career. Bear in mind that relationships take understanding and lots of time to develop. Study your relationships and put the effort it them to make them as successful as your career, your job, or your business. Do not forget that everyone is unique and should be treated as such.

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