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What to Do When Your Boyfriend Doesn't Call

April 13, 2012 | Comments: 0 | Views: 1530

  • Wouldn't it be nice if your boyfriend could read your mind and call you any time you wished?
  • How happy would you be if your boyfriend made the effort to call you first instead of you being the one to "chase" after him?
  • Are you tired of feeling you are more interested in the relationship than your boyfriend because he does not call you as often as he should?

I understand how bad it feels when your boyfriend doesn't call because I used to have the same problem. Over time, I finally figured out how get what I want from my boyfriend without nagging or being pushy. So please do not despair. Keep reading this article to learn the 3 steps of what to do when your boyfriend does not call, so you too can have a boyfriend who calls you as much as you like (sometimes even more)!

Step 1. Stop expecting your boyfriend to read your heart and mind.

The biggest mistake that girlfriends make with their boyfriends is wishing he could read their minds. If you want to have a happy long-lasting relationship, you MUST get rid of this is behaviour and attitude. Not doing so will eventually drive your boyfriend away, no matter how much he loves you. Men need to feel they can make a woman happy to stay with her. Otherwise, a man will choose to leave because it is just too painful for him to keep "messing up" with the woman he loves. Please change your mindset now. Because once your boyfriend feels he can't make you happy, he may actually think that breaking up with you is his way of loving you - so you can get what you want, and be happy with some other man who knows how to please you instead.

Step 2. You need to spend time thinking about exactly what you want.

In the past, I used to complain to my ex-boyfriends that they didn't call me enough without thinking for myself exactly what I want. By the time someone suggested I think about exactly what time I wanted my boyfriend to call me, I was feeling very upset. It took me some effort to calm down and be as specific as I could. So don't give up even if you feel you are too upset to think now. Spend some time to answer the questions: Ideally, when and how often do I want my boyfriend to call me? What would make me happy? To give you my example, after trial and error, I discovered I need my boyfriend to text and call me at least once a day. I am happy as long as he either texts or calls me in the afternoon (any meal time), and before he sleeps. What about you?

Step 3. You need to tell your boyfriend nicely what you want, in a way he can understand.

Speaking nicely to your boyfriend is basic courtesy. But men and women speak "different languages". If you do not ask your boyfriend the "right" way, he can feel you blame him or are complaining. To give you a better idea of how to speak to men, here is how I asked my boyfriend to call me at least once a day: "Love, do you know what would make me really happy? I would really love it if you could call me at least once a day. When you don't, I feel you don't love me. I know it does not make sense but it is the way I feel. Would you please call me before you sleep tomorrow?" Saying something like this does not mean you will definitely get what you want. But it creates something even better: An opportunity to discuss and negotiate an arrangement that works well for the both of you. Talking things out with your boyfriend builds a necessary foundation for your relationship with him to continue. A man needs to feel the two of you can work together as a team, before considering moving your relationship to the next phase of engagement, marriage or having kids.

Isn't it worth it to tell your boyfriend exactly how to make you happy if doing so will move your relationship forward? Stop expecting him to read your mind, figure out exactly what you want (through trial and error), and learn how to speak to men in a way they can understand. It took me a long time to figure out how have happy relationship. So if I can do it, I know you can too.

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