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Men Marry Women Who Understand Them

April 23, 2012 | Comments: 0 | Views: 236

When wondering what men are looking for in a woman they want to marry, first and foremost, you need to understand that men like things: S-I-M-P-L-E.

They don't over analyze every phrase you say looking for a hidden meaning. They're not into "reading between the lines." They don't speak in riddles (unless they're emotionally manipulative - and you don't want to marry a guy like that anyway!). In fact, when a man says something, that's exactly what he intends to say in that moment.

What does this mean? Men want to marry women who understand them, and frankly, they also want to marry a woman they can understand. It's hard to believe sometimes, but men just don't communicate the way women do. They appreciate and can relate to women who "give it to them straight." Rather than hinting that you are too tired to go out this evening or trying to hint at the fact that you are upset he isn't spending enough time with you, try telling him.

Men really hate the stress of having to worry about making a mistake and upsetting you. Yes, there is always a chance of your words not being received the way you hope, but at the same time you are giving him important information about what you want and need. And when you communicate clearly and to the point, he run less of a risk of upsetting you. It also means that you are opening lines of connection between the two of you, which is a vital key towards developing a lasting bond in your relationship.

Of course, your delivery is essential. Has anyone ever said to you, "It's not what you said, but how you said it?" Never is that concept more relevant than when communicating with your man. He will respond much more favorably if your approach is soft and feminine, rather than shouting or whining.

If you start yelling and accusing, you throw his instincts into battle mode. He will then start treating you like one of the guys because guys' natural instincts are to compete against each other. As a result, he will either do the "guy thing" and withdraw to his man cave, or simply try to win some supposed argument (an argument you never intended!). Not ideal when you're trying to get closer to his heart.

By being soft and feminine you completely disarm him because men want to marry a woman they can make happy. Truly.

But you have to understand that it works both ways. You see, men want to marry women who make them feel good, as well. If he is constantly walking around on eggshells because he doesn't know how to please you, the last thing he will feel is good.

There are few things that give a man security in a relationship than knowing he can soothe his woman when she's upset. He honestly wants to do everything in his power to make things easier for her. If you can learn to genuinely express your feelings to him in a calm and gentle manner, rather than rattling off a list of your relationship's perceived problems, you will find that he will become much more receptive to you, your relationship and ultimately, your future together.

PS. If you truly desire to get married, but you're tired of waiting for a man to be ready - tired of feeling like you have to resort to yucky manipulation techniques to get a deeper commitment...

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