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Communicating the Way That You Really Feel

February 29, 2012 | Comments: 0 | Views: 198

As men, it seems at times that we are almost hardwired to be bad at communicating in the context of relationships. It's so much easier for guys to communicate with other guys, because we know that we just want the facts and we don't want to have a lot of detail added to the conversation. However, as a guy who is in a relationship with a woman, you do have to work on your communication skills if you want things to go well with her. Yes, it can be hard to get good at communicating the way that you really feel. You may find that sometimes, you just don't have the right words to express clearly to your girlfriend exactly how you feel.

Still, that should not be a reason for you to just give up on working on building up your skill in this area of your life. Take a look at some of the more successful relationships that you can find. You know, the ones who are really happy even when you look deeper than just what is on the surface. I bet you that they are good at communicating with one another and they have a good idea on what the other person is thinking and feeling. It really is one of those secrets that some couples seem to figure out that allows them to last.

Let's say that you kind of feel as though the relationship may not be as solid as you want it to be. You know that there is a good chance that your girlfriend is not as happy as she could be and that scares you. What most guys will do is keep that feeling to themselves and they won't start that hard conversation that they want to have but they also don't want to have. So, it never gets started and you know what usually happens? The relationship DOES end up coming to an end and it could have been prevented had the guy been able to express what he was feeling or really, fearing and started that conversation.

What would you rather have happen? Would you rather feel a little uncomfortable for a little bit but have that conversation that you need to have with your girlfriend or would you rather avoid it at all costs and then find out that she was unhappy and now she is leaving you? I bet just the thought of that makes you want to learn how to communicate your feelings just a little bit better.

What do you say to your ex girlfriend if you want to be able to reconcile with her?

Should you tell your ex girlfriend that you want to win her back?

Copyright (c) 2012 Andrew Grimsley. All Rights Reserved.

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