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3 Top Secrets Men Desire To Tell Women

April 11, 2012 | Comments: 0 | Views: 197

If you're having problems understanding men, here's an article from a man's point of view to help women understand us a little bit better. Here's 3 top secrets that men desire to tell women.

1) When a man gives you a compliment, it comes across as an insult when you don't believe him. When a man gives you a compliment, treat it like he's giving you a gift. As you ladies know, it's not very common for a man to give you a gift. The quickest way to make him stop trying to say something nice to you is to make him explain why he said something nice. Also, asking him if he really means it has the same effect.

Want to know the best way to handle a compliment, especially if you're feeling playful - smile and look him in the eyes and hold it for a few seconds. Look out!

2) Give your man the same energy when he does something well as you do when he does something wrong. It can be very aggravating to a man when the love of his life barely notices the good things he does but gets very upset and angry when he does something wrong.

We look at that kind of episode and wonder "Why don't I get the same kind of energy when I do something right like when I surprised her last week with her favorite dessert?"

This doesn't mean you can never get mad at your man when he does something stupid. But here's how you should handle it when he does something right. Give him the same kind of energy and enthusiasm as you do when he does something wrong. We love to feel that positive emotion from our ladies.

3) Men aren't mind readers. We can't figure out why you're upset. Women tend to expect the man to know why they're upset and if the man doesn't then he's in even more trouble.

Here's how to handle this type of situation: When you're upset, talk a little bit slower and have that soft tone in your voice. You really need to do it in person but if you can't you can do it over the phone. No text or email!

Men don't pick up on hints as much as women do. So, when you do have some sort of talk or disagreement, make sure he understands how you really feel and what you mean. If you think he'll figure it out, he won't. We are very direct creatures. We understand what is given to us in black and white. Your man will appreciate you handling the disagreement this way.

Try these out, see how they work for you. Don't be surprised if you get some really good results.

Joel Higginbotham is an independent social researcher who specializes in interpersonal relationships. Recently Joel has produced a 2 1/2 minute video where he gives some advice to improve women's relationships with men. Check out Joel's video on how to be the woman men adore and never want to leave

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