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What You Don't Know About Getting Him to Marry You

April 26, 2012 | Comments: 0 | Views: 176

What you don't know about getting him to marry you will keep you single. Have you been with your boyfriend for a while now and still aren't engaged? When holidays roll around are you always disappointed because he never asks that one special question? Do you constantly imagine yourself in your wedding dress but feel as if the day may never come? You know he loves you, but why does he wait? What keeps him pulling away?

What really makes it hurt is that you know he is "the one" and he knows you are his "one."

So what is keeping him from asking you to marry him?

As you well know, he operates differently than you do. Sure, we're all essentially made the same - but the internal workings of your man aren't the same as your internal workings are. And knowing how he thinks and how his clock ticks can make the difference between him asking you to marry him and him continually putting it off. For him to want marriage he has to "feel" that it's right, that all systems are functional - and it's a go.

He has a man's intuition, just as you have a woman's intuition. But a "man's intuition," he calls his "gut feelings." When his "gut feelings" kick in, he responds to them automatically. This is the part where he is different. He won't "analyze" his feelings or talk them over with his friends - as you do with your friends - he just responds to his "gut feelings" on auto pilot. It's his safety system and it has worked for eons.

He may not even consciously be aware of it, because he's hard-wired to respond to his "gut feelings." It's what made men good and safe hunters back in the days of our hunter-gatherer society. They survived during those brutal hunts, because they automatically responded to their "gut feelings."

To put it simply, men are like bees and women are like flowers. Bees are hard-wired and drawn to flowers because of it. Men are hard-wired to respond to the right "information" from their gut feelings - and when they don't get the right info - they don't respond. In fact, they may just put on the brakes.

If you try to push him into marriage, he'll more than likely pull away. And if you're an honest person, you want him to want you - it doesn't feel right if you have to manipulate him - so what's a girl to do?

The first thing you can do is to remember how he was attracted to you in the first place. Men are "attracted" to marriage as a next logical step - as long as he's got a "green" from his gut feelings - just as the bee is attracted to the colors in the flower. Manipulating or cajoling him will end up with you getting stung. Attracting him isn't about "looking" your best, although that doesn't hurt - it's about why he wanted to be with you in the first place. He wanted to be with you because of the way you make him feel around you: like he's important. BS-ing here won't work because his gut feelings will kick in and throw on the brakes.

Men have built-in radar for BS detectors - when you've been less than honest in your attempts to make him "want" you - it will be hard to get the reaction out of him that you desire. If you're not sure how to go about getting him to want to marry you all on his own - DISCOVER the AMAZING video that will provide you three free tips to get him to ask without manipulation. Do you really want to be with this guy? Is he the one? Then follow this link to HowtoGetHimtoProposetoYou.com and find out more today. The clock is ticking - don't you think you both deserve happiness and contentment? If he's truly the one and you are his, learn TODAY these AMAZING tips on how to get him to ask you on his own and be well on your way down that wedding aisle.

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