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April 23, 2012 | Comments: 0 | Views: 360

How to keep a man from straying. Okay. You found your man. You really like him. You're still dating him or you got married. Anyway, he is yours. You have no intention of letting anyone else take him. And, you especially don't want your man to stray. How do you keep him from doing so?

Let's define the word "straying." It means "to wander; roam." Oh, that's what straying means. No wonder that topic is so taboo. No woman in her right mind wants her man to stray. You certainly don't.

Men are strange creatures. They are. They can be mean, opinionated, hurtful, and selfish. What self-respecting woman would want a man? Most do. Why? Men can also be kind, thoughtful, generous, sweet, and dear. Yes, they can. Don't quibble. You know they are multi-faced animals. Speaking of animals, the other day I saw a man and you won't believe what he did. He was... oh, but I'm digressing. Let's get back to our topic.

You are not asking how to make a man want you or how to make a man love you or even how to get him to propose. You do want to know the secrets about men that will enable you to learn how to keep him. You definitely want to keep him. You do, don't you? You do. What are the secrets?

One secret is to keep your man interested in you. How? Continue to flatter him. Continue to make him feel important. Continue to ask about his needs and desires. Your asking him about himself will keep your man interested in you because other than his mother and maybe his best friend, you are all he's got. Seriously, if he cares about you, he won't stray. Men who really care about their wives, care about their opinions, care not to hurt them, won't stray.

Men will stray if they can get away with it. Most men, not all. Ask a man if he knows he can get away with cheating on his wife -- she'll never find out -- if he would cheat. Many men will say "sure." There are those who say "no way." Why one answer and not the other?

It all has to do with the relationship between you. Is it based on mutual respect and trust? Do you both go out of your way to make sure the other is happy and contented with your relationship? Are you careful with denying your man what he wants? It's a smart woman who knows which battles are worth fighting over and which ones are not.

So, how to keep a man from straying? Don't make small problems big problems. Welcome him home with open, loving arms. Inquire about his day. Still dating? Welcome him into your home with warmth and genuine delight. Be glad he is with you. Never put him down; instead, scoff at his ideas or actions. Never belittle him. It's what he says or does that you are mad at. It's really not him. Really.

How to keep a man at all? That's a much bigger question which deserves a lot of time and space. Now's not the time and we've run out of space.

There's always next time.

Great discussions on all aspects of relationships leading up to commitment and marriage including topics such as Get a Man to Commit.

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