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How Can I Get Him to Commit Into a Relationship?

April 14, 2012 | Comments: 0 | Views: 217

This is a question that many women are asking themselves. A man who refuses to commit is a common dating dilemma. There can be different causes for this. Maybe he wants to be more secure financially before getting into a relationship. Or he has a trauma from a past relationship. There are some things that you can do to get him to want a relationship.

No pressure

It is very important not to pressure him. If you keep pressuring him, this will only make him feel negative about any commitment. You just need to give him time. Many guys do not want to grow up. They will do anything to keep delaying the process as much as they can. Only if he has the desire to commit, he will do it. Many women wish there was a magical way to make things happen.

Show him your independence

Let him see that you are an independent woman. If he is nervous about commitment, maybe it is because he thinks that you will depend on him too much. Show him that this will not be the case by spending time with your friends and dedicate time to your interests. Prove to him that he does not need to sacrifice his interests for you. A lot of men are attracted to independent women.

Get help

If he his issues from his childhood or from past relationships, maybe it is time to get help from a professional. Even if he is mature, he will not commit if he is having this kind of problems. You can encourage him to see a counselor. Your role in this case is to be supportive.

Be prepared to move on

You should not be afraid to move on if that is necessary. Of course this has nothing to do with commitment. But if he has other priorities in his life and does not want to get into any relationship, maybe you will need to move on. Especially if his refusal frustrates you, it may be time to look for a person who has the same priorities as you.

Do not make him jealous

Do not even think about making him jealous by flirting with other men. This is not the same thing as showing him your independence. By doing this you will only make things worse. How can I get him to commit if I am not being faithful myself? That is the question that you need to ask yourself in that case.

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