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Staying Together After Infidelity - It Can Be Done

April 19, 2012 | Comments: 0 | Views: 245

There are a lot of factors that can contribute to infidelity in a marriage. It happens way too much but if a couple decides to salvage their marriage it would help to know how it got started. Not many people really understand what brings someone to cheat on their spouse. Sometimes it is about love or sex but mostly it is because of something going wrong in the relationship between two people.

For instance if a couple have been together for years and things start getting tough one partner may seek to alleviate their frustration by cheating. It becomes an escape from the reality of their relationship that they can not face. Almost like the response of a selfish or immature person when something does not please them.

They could take the initiative to face the problems and work out a solution; instead they choose to turn their back on it. Finding someone that helps them forget their problems is the solution they take. It may make them feel good for a while but in the long term it doesn't work.

They will feel good and desirable for a while and they have peace during this period. Overall they only make matters worse creating more problems they will have to face. This is the short version of what cheating is. Below are some things you can use to help repair your relationship after experience cheating in your relationship.

1. What you must understand, whether you are the cheater or the one cheated on, is repairing the relationship will be painful and long. Knowing this at the start, if you are not willing to make the commitment to fix it you may as well end it.

2. Even if you manage to stay together, you must be aware that the issue of infidelity may come up again during stressful times. This is not to say that you or your partner will cheat; it means that previous anger or frustrations may come out again.

3. Rebuilding your relationship on your own can be difficult and most couples can't do it on their own. Considering a marriage counselor is a great option to help work with you. Both you and your partner may have trouble holding back the hurt and anger which will make it difficult to fix things on your own. A counselor would be the middle person to help you work through it.

If you need a way to get back to the great relationship the two of you once had before the affair it will not be easy. An affair does not mean the relationship comes to an end as long as the two of love each other, and are determined to make your relationship work.

If you are at a turning point in your marriage you should check out Rescue from Divorce, sign up for the FREE alternative to marriage counseling report.

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